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By Tyler Moss

One of the hardest things for most nice guys to see is the woman they want dating a jerk. It gets even worse if you hear this woman say she wants a nice guy. You would take her in a heart beat, but she still would rather date that jerk.

Let’’s investigate this a little shall we?

What is really more important? What she tells you she wants with her words? Or… What she tells you she wants with her actions?

Actions always speak louder then words.

There are things about that jerk that makes her attracted to him. It is her choice to date him and have a relationship with him. She responds to him with the actions that you wish she would respond to you with.

Does this still mean she wants jerks? No it doesn”t. She is with the jerk because he provides her with the closest experience that she craves for. Is it always healthy for her? No it isn”t. But she can”t help the fact that she is attracted to guys who display a very strong masculinity.

Being nice alone doesn”t make a woman attracted to you. It sets more of a friends or brotherly love type tone to your relationship. Loving a friend or brother isn”t the same kind of love that she would feel for a lover.

Being A Jerk Isn”t Always Being A Jerk

Many of the things that are often thought of as a bad way of treating women are not really bad at all.

Let’’s use teasing as an example.

How often have you heard a man say something to a woman that you would never say to a woman? I used to see this all the time. I would think “I would never say that to a woman.” Yet, the woman would always respond well to this. She would smile, laugh, and tease back. It’’s her response that mattered. She was having fun.

This same thing applies to many of the stuff that jerks do. They challenge women, they give them drama, they take risks, they are spontaneous, they don”t put up with her crap, they can”t be controlled, and they are exciting. The vast majority of that stuff doesn”t make them a jerk through the eyes of a woman.

If you could learn to apply just a little of that in your own behavior you would see a huge improvement in how women respond to you. No woman would think that you are a jerk either.

About The Author

Tyler Moss teaches men how to flirt with women. How would you like to meet, date, and attract the woman of your dreams? Now you can by visiting http://www.charmingmanblog.com/

By Tyler Moss

Most of us guys hate rejection with a passion. We hate it so much that we would rather not even bother to approach a woman if we think that she is more likely to reject us. Yeah, it is a big problem.

What can you do about it? You need to understand it. Once you understand it you will realize that it’’s not that big of a deal. What is a big deal is that fear and anxiety you get that stops you from approaching her.

Why She Might Reject You

Most rejection falls under two different categories.

1.You weren”t really rejected.
2.You did something dumb and that annoyed her.

For the first one you need to realize that most rejection isn”t rejection. If a woman is married or has a boyfriend that’’s not rejection. It just isn”t. The point of approaching her is to see if she is available or not.

What about if you say something to a woman and she doesn”t say anything back? Is that rejection? Is she ignoring you? Sure she could be. But she could also be deaf, on her way to an emergency, really busy, or just not open to meeting new people at that moment.

If anything you can”t always blame yourself for being rejected. It’’s just easy for you to assume that you must have done something wrong. In many cases if you asked the woman what you did wrong she probably would even say “You did nothing wrong.” Those are just a few things for you to keep in mind.

Number two might not always be that obvious. Usually a woman will reject you if it falls under a couple different circumstances.

1.If she fears for her safety.
2.You say something that is very offensive to her.

Are you stalking her? Are you following her around? Are you staring at her? Do you look nervous? Did you touch her somewhere you shouldn”t have? These are things that make a woman fear for her life. If you creep her out you will be rejected.

You can get away with offending a woman. If you do it by teasing and with humor you probably will get away with it. But you do have to be careful.

Here are a few things you need to be careful with.

- If you offend her race.
- If you offend something about her body that she is sensitive too.
- If you offend someone she is close to like a friend or family member.
- If you say something that is too sexual to her as soon as you meet her.
- If you say something stupid.(Can I smell your hair?, Can I lick your toes?)

Now you know why a woman might rejected you. The next step is to start approaching women so that you can overcome that fear. You just can”t beat real experience.

About The Author

Tyler Moss teaches men how to flirt with women. How would you like to meet, date, and attract the woman of your dreams? Now you can by visiting http://www.charmingmanblog.com/