Archive for June 7th, 2008

What To Do When A Woman Wants You To Approach Her

By Tyler Moss

Everyday when you head out there is at least one woman who wants to meet you.

Is that hard for you to believe?

Think your too fat?

Think your not good looking?

None of it matters.

As we go through our day we all see someone we would like to meet. Heck, I see several women at least every time I go out that I would like to talk to. The exact same thing happens to women. As they go through their day they see guys that they wish would approach them.

Did you ever think that if you could identify that woman that you could make her dreams come true? Yes you could put a smile on her face and make her day. All you have to do is take time to talk to her.

You are mostly likely caught up in your own thoughts to even notice these women. You probably believe that no woman would even want to check a guy like you out. How wrong you are.

Here is what I want you to do.

Look around you and make eye contact with people. Don”t just focus on what is ahead of you or what it is that you think you should be looking at. Make a strong non verbal connection with women. Give them a nice warm smile. This shows her that you appreciate her feminine presence.

What will you see?

You will see some women who want to meet you. Some will give you strong eye contact back, some will smile at you, some will twirl their hair, and some will look down at your shoes. Now you have to come up with something to say to her.

What can you say? Focus on putting a smile on her face, making her feel good, and making her day.

Her are a few examples:

I seen you standing over here and I couldn”t help notice how beautiful you are.

Hi. I couldn”t help but notice you. I wanted to meet you. I”m Willy.

Hi. I”m Willy. You seemed like someone I need to meet. I don”t like to let chances like these pass me by.

Direct like this is very powerful when its done in the right way. The idea is to be charming, but not desperate. Don”t delay your approach. Being hesitant makes you look weak. Stand tall and walk casually. You need to look confident and sure of yourself.

This just may be the easiest and most natural way of meeting women.

About The Author

Tyler Moss teaches men how to flirt with women. How would you like to meet, date, and attract the woman of your dreams? Now you can by visiting http://www.charmingmanblog.com/

Saturday, June 7th, 2008

Keep Your Break Up From Ruining Your Life

By Vincent Curto

If you aren”t careful, a break up can affect every part of your life, from your leisure time to your work. This can result in not just an emotional breakdown, but major issues in all areas. Keeping it together enough that you don”t lose everything is far from easy, but doable.

Your break up will understandably affect your social life. Where you used to go out with your ex and meet up with friends together, now you will be forced to go out alone and your mutual friends will be trying to figure out whose side they are on. It’’s not a fun situation, but hopefully you still have some friends who are just yours. Go out with them and make a point of getting to know new people so you have a good reason to get out of the house and not mope around.

Being at home is probably the worst time of day. You have the time to sit and think about everything that has happened and to worry about seeing your ex and wondering what you could have done differently to avoid breaking up. It’’s very easy to get depressed and just stay in bed for extended periods of time. You might find that your eating habits change, too. You may end up binging on food, or just the opposite. Losing your appetite and not eating at all is almost as bad for your body as is overeating.

To combat this problem, try to get out. If you have a good friend, now is time to enlist their help in keeping you busy. Plan some day trips together or even take off for a weekend. The idea is to keep busy so you don”t have to think about things for a bit.

Often, breaking up with your loved one will cause some problems at work, as well. If you end up very depressed, you”ll find yourself laying in bed, calling in sick. This isn”t a good idea . . . the last thing you need is to lose your job on top of everything else! Even if you let yourself wallow in self-pity at home, make sure that you do focus at work. Forcing yourself to get up in the morning and shower and get dressed to go to work is a good start. Showing up for work gives you a few points toward keeping your job and actually working while you”re there is even better. Work is also good for you because it gives you a chance to focus on something apart from the break up, which is always good.

Having a space to actually feel bad is probably a good thing. It lets you have that outlet for your emotions, but you can still focus on making things work in other areas. If need be, take a few days off from work, but don”t jeopardize your career, it just isn”t worth it. And, while you may feel that nothing is worth the effort these days, you”ll be back on your feet in a while and then you”ll regret having abandoned jobs or ignoring your friends for so long.

It’’s unreasonable to expect to be able to get over a break up in minutes, so allow yourself a bit of time to feel down and unhappy about the whole thing . . . but not at the expense of your life. Your relationship may be over, but your life isn”t, so focus on the areas that you can fix and make it a life well worth living.

About The Author

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Saturday, June 7th, 2008