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By paul corral

Are you a good wingman? Do you enhance or stifle your friend’’s interactions with women? What exactly does a good wingman do? The short definition is a good wingman helps his friends meet women, usually by engaging her friends, often making a romantic connection himself!

The short definition deserves more of an explanation of course. First and foremost wingmen help each other, they don”t compete for women! Competing for women with your friends tells women that you don”t have much going for you, you don”t have good or very many friends and you are not very successful with women! That being said, how do you help your friend’’s game and win your wings?

The first rule is you treat your friends like rock stars. When talking to women or anyone for that matter you should talk about your friends like they are the greatest friends one could have. Don”t say, “This is my friend Jon.” Instead say, “This is my friend Jon, Triathlete extraordinaire!” Get it; share something unique and great about your friend, if you think their great so will the group of women your talking to.

Now, if your friend is the one interacting with a group of women first, sit back and wait a few minutes. Wait for him to get locked in a fun conversation, and then join the conversation. Once you”re interacting with a group of women give your friend priority. Don”t turn towards and give all your attention to the women. You still want to talk to your friend and let them be apart of your conversation. You will see women do this; you don”t abandon your friends for women. This will show you have status and a good social circle.

Now, when your friend and you have started talking to the individual women your targeting try to stay in sync. This means if his girl isn”t as into the interaction as yours, mention to your girl that her friend is being a little boring or weird, so you are thinking about leaving for your friend’’s sake. She will give her friend a nudge to start being more fun so you guys don”t take off.

Any physical escalation should take place in sync too. No woman likes to look easy in front of her friends. If you are both progressing at the same pace than no one feels weird!

Lastly, there a golden rule between fellow wingmen to keep in mind. The first guy to open and talk to a group of girls gets to pick which one he wants to attract. If this means you have to talk to another less interesting girl from the group for an hour (a.k.a. jumping on the grenade) so be it, you never ever leave your wingman! He will do the same for you! And no matter how hot or interesting the girl your friend is talking to you cannot go after her or try to steal her! There are plenty of hot interesting women in this world but your friends are your friends (a.k.a. bro’’s before ho’’s)

About The Author

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By Terry Leslie

We all have desires, both men and women. BUT they are very different.

Most of our desires, personality and drives have been pre-programmed into us at birth and through growing up within what I call our own individual circle of influence from friends and family.

Women definitely have a few main needs, interests, wants, and desires that need to be fulfilled when you are talking about their perfect man and relationships.

If you look at the numerous on-line dating websites which a women describes a partner she is striving to look for pretty much all mention that they are looking for friendship, perfect soul mate, loyal and stable etc etc. Yet if you look at what all the men are looking for in their on-line dating descriptions mentions nothing of this sort and always inevitably focus on physical looks and attractions.

However, if you look into more detail you will find a conflict between a woman’’s ultimate desires and what they describe.

For example, a woman may want a strong masculine and dominating man, yet once she has chosen and is now with him, she may also want independence and thus feel like she is stuck and wants freedom.

Another example maybe that a women maybe looking for a man who can make her laugh all the time, yet when she has now found this humorous man, she feels that he never takes anything she says or does seriously, And SHE was the one who wanted him because of this personality!

Don”t get me wrong, men also have this dilemma as well but different ones.

An example of this could be that a man first thinks what he wants is a beautiful women in his arms who he can make love to all night long, yet she can be the type that is easily strayed to other men and is constantly on the search too even though she already has you. Now ask any man and that is a painful experience. Did he really desire this beautiful woman in the first place, I doubt it.

One funny one that I hear a lot of is when women complain, (OK not complain, if you”re a woman reading this), share their opinion with their girlfriends on their man who is glued to sports and always talk about sports. Yet what does sports give their man? The women was initially attracted to their man because of his masculinity and dominancy, and sports by nature fulfills a mans desire of competition, dominancy of others, power, adrenaline, action and adventure.

Wasn”t this all the traits that a women is attracted to their man in the first place. Now imagine their man changes and becomes submissive and gentle, his attraction to her would be lost almost immediately. She” be wondering why he has changed so much and why she has lost her attraction to him?

About The Author

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