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By Tyler Moss

What makes you afraid of approaching that beautiful woman?

Is it rejection?

That your not good enough for her?

Maybe a bunch of other little things?

In this article I”m going to go over a few things that most men think about before they approach a woman that creates fear and anxiety.

Thought Killer #1: The Perfect Woman

We have all heard the concept of putting a woman on a pedestal. But what does that really mean? It means you are hypnotizing yourself. Mind you, there is nothing wrong with that when it is done in the right way. In this case your doing it in the wrong way.

You start to create images in your mind of how wonderful and perfect this woman is. When you see things you start to believe those things. She becomes so perfect in your mind that there is no way that you would stand a chance with her. Your chances of now meeting this woman are spoiled because of these images you have put of her in your mind.

Thought Killer #2: She Must Be Stuck Up

She could be stuck up. But how do you really know? You haven”t met her yet.

You might even be the one who is stuck up. You might even be kind of creepy. Your the one staring at her without saying anything.

The point of approaching a woman is to see what she is like. Don”t make poor assumptions just so you can use it as an excuse to not approach her.

Thought Killer #3: She Is Way Too Hot

It’’s great that she is a beautiful woman and great that you find her physically attractive.

What if I told you that woman you were afraid of and think is hot is really a man? Now what do you think of her?

As you can see she might not be who or what you originally think she is. You have to approach her and meet her to find out who she really is. Remember that all you know about a woman before you approach her is that you find her physically attractive. When you meet you may find her better or worse then what you originally thought.

Thought Killer #4: She Will Do Something To Embarrass Me

Most women will not do anything to embarrass you unless you do something to embarrass her first.

If you say something that is overly sexual or offensive then you can expect her to defend herself or be flat out scared of you.

The worst things that may happen to you is for her to turn her back, walk away, or just pretend she didn”t even hear you. Not really that bad when you think about it.

Thought Killer #5: Thinking About Sex

There are moments where thinking about sex isn”t bad. Before you approach probably isn”t one of the better times unless you got good self control.

If you approach a woman too sexually your going to send out some very creepy vibes. Focus your efforts on getting to know her. You can ramp up the sexual tension as things progress.

Conclusion

The moment these things start to cross your mind the less likely you are to bother approaching her. The key is to catch yourself before its too late.

About The Author

Tyler Moss teaches men how to flirt with women. How would you like to meet, date, and attract the woman of your dreams? Now you can by visiting http://www.charmingmanblog.com/

By Johan Krost

Some guys feel that when they learn “canned lines” from pick-up websites on a woman, these lines should work like a charm no matter the way in which the guys uses them. They could not be more wrong about this if they tried.

When you use any bad opener from anybody, the way in which you say the opener to a girl makes all the difference in the world. For instance, if a guy has absolutely no self-confidence and barely squeaks out any canned opener, he is doomed to failure.

When he tells a girl, “I would just love to get to know a hot girl like you much better in a more intimate place than this bar”, while using poor body language that expresses to the woman that he is a downtrodden man without any redeeming qualities, every woman he will ever tell that opener to will shoot him down in flames.

Is that because the opener is totally cheesy and over-used in every bar in America? While that is partly true, the reason it will not work on most women is because of the WAY the man said it, not in the phrase itself.

If this same line was used on a woman at a noisy bar in which the man strolled up to her dressed in a nice shirt and slacks, with a very confident stride and a sly smile on his face let loose with that same opener and delivered it using strong vocal patterns, most women would respond positively to him.

STRONG BODY LANGUAGE IS KEY TO EXHIBITING SELF-CONFIDENCE

Even if you are not sure about the exact opener you should be using on a woman that is standing right in front of you, as long as you have already shown her strong self-confidence exuding from you by using strong body language and deep voice tones, you are already half-way there on your way to a successful phone number close or kiss close.

If you are using lines that you honestly are feeling at the moment of that first interaction with a girl, she will sense your honesty exuding from you and she will respond to almost anything you say to her with positive feelings. Women have a much more innate ability to figure out exactly what a guy’’s intentions are before you even open your mouth.

Another big issue concerning using canned pick-up lines and routines that do not expressly show her your own strong personality is the fact that these lines have absolutely nothing to do with the environment and circumstances that you and the girl you are approaching happen to be in.

For instance, if a girl is at the mall and she is window-shopping for a tight dress that is displayed at a store called “Cinnamon Girl”, would you use an opener such as “I”ve never seen such a beautiful girl in a mall like this. Where are you from?”

That opener makes no sense to her reality because why would she be in a crappy mall as compared to a really nice, modern mall that you will probably be seeing a lot of hot women in? Also, when you talk crap about a place that she is already in, you are really saying that she has no taste when it comes to shopping. Also, by using this generic opener, you are not using her window-shopping as something unique only to her.

PICK YOUR OPENERS VERY CAREFULLY

A good opener to use on this girl that is staring into this store window would be: “I see you have a really good sense of fashion when it comes to picking out skirts for yourself. I really like the one you have on, but the one in the window is the right amount of flash that suits your personality much better.”

Remember that great openers are only as good as the man saying them, and you will much better off than when you were using canned lines from other “Pick-Up Gurus” before you started creating great inner game for yourself

About The Author

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