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By Chris Jensen

If all you want to do is reconcile with your ex, then this isn”t the time for you to lose your head. If you can stay calm and focused, there are things that you can do to help get your ex back and they aren”t really that hard to do.

One, ”give it a rest”. Stay away from your ex for a month or so. This will give you both some breathing room. Although it may not feel like it, this “vacation” will do both of you a world of good. A short period of separation gives you a better chance of reconciling with your ex.

Two, don”t take your advice from the movies; Hollywood is not real life. Movie writers fix the script. The old Hollywood standby of friends bailing each other out or the even less likely scenario of the person’’s ex returning out of the blue just isn”t going to happen. Only you can fix your problems. You know better than anyone what you want and what you need. Once you take responsibility for the negative feelings and replace them with a more positive outlook, things will get better.

Three, there is no heartbreak handyman. You can”t dump your problems on someone else and expect them to just ”fix it”. Your friends and family can be a source of strength at this time and you should certainly spend time with people who love you and who only want the best for you. But you can”t depend on them to do all the heavy lifting. If you take responsibility for your problems while surrounding yourself with loved ones, by the end of the month you will be in a better place to win back your ex.

Four, don”t walk around with your head in the storm clouds; shake those blues. That month long break is a good time to work on yourself. Use your alone time to explore who you were before you met your ex and who you are now. Got a lot of spare time on your hands? Use it to experiment with any self improvement techniques that you would like to try. That way when you do start talking to your ex again, he or she will see a new you and may be much more likely to want to make a new start with you.

Five, your ex can”t ”fix it” either. Again, this is not a movie. The script writers have not predetermined a happy ending for you. That has to come from you. If you want your ex back, you alone can make it happen.

Six, if you think that time heals all wounds, you are only partly right. Remember time is only one element. Problems don”t go away on their own. Whatever problems caused the breakup in the first place need to be resolved. Most important, you need to let go of the past. This isn”t always easy to do, but until you do, you aren”t truly ready for a reconciliation. If you can let go, you may just get the happy ending you wanted.

About The Author

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By Scott Patterson

For many men, trying to start a conversation with a woman is one of the most nerve wracking things to do. For many men who are meeting women for the first time, trying to come up with conversation openers on the fly can be nearly impossible. Sure, they “Hi, how are you doing” is the standard opening for any conversation, what comes after can be a gigantic blank spot to nervous men around the world.

Fortunately, there are millions of questions out there that could act as great conversation openers. While it may seem awkward to seek and rehearse conversation openers, it is important none the less; first impressions are everything. By knowing what you want to say, you will come off as cool and collected, an important trait for a first impression. Here are some conversation openers that you can look at and possibly use the next time that you are trying to pick up a number at a bar.

What was your favorite childhood cartoon?

Going back to younger times can be one of the greatest ways to catch the attention of woman that you are meeting. While asking them what their favorite childhood cartoon may seem like an awkward conversation starter, it serves an important purpose; most people are fond of their childhood. This will put someone in a good mood, and can be a great way to jump into a conversation full of stories about Sunday morning cartoons and favorite characters.

What is your favorite word?

It is fair to say that asking someone their favorite word may come across as awkward and ”intellectual”, but it can be a great way to get someone to think. This gives you time to compose yourself and relax as you wait for an answer. If you like to switch it up a little, ask her what her least favorite word is. Many people may not have a word that they love, but nearly everyone has a word that they cannot stand. Make sure to think of your own answer to respond with.

If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?

Most people like to travel, and while everyone may not be able to travel as much as they would like, nearly everyone has a place that they would love to go. Don”t worry; you do not need to know anything about the country they answer with. While that may help, the idea of travel will spark conversation. If you do not know much about the country, ask them why they want to go, and what is special about that country; they”ll love to talk about it.

Conversation openers are an easy way to get a conversation rolling. You cannot script or choreograph an entire conversation, as conversation rolls naturally. The important thing is to get it started off right. You might know what you can talk about, but using a conversation opener that is bound to get the woman you are talking to to talk is key to starting off a great conversation.

About The Author

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract & seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this resource, visit his site now:

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